Changing Your Energy Now by Sunhee
You have to remember that in your DNA, you are used to seeing dysfunction, abuse or people who had chaos in their lives. Try to look back and see why the feeling of mental illness, depression, anger, sadness, fear are all emotions that you are used to feeling. Once you do the internal work and you work on yourself to forgive, you will feel a huge force lifted off of your chest. You are setting yourself free. Its liberating to take those emotions off of you, and putting it into the air to fly away.
Like energy attracts like energy, so remember that if you were in a dysfunctional relationship, most likely you attracted the same people as friends, in a job, and family members. It’s healthy to take the time to clean out the closet and re assess what really makes you feel good. The GOOD feeling is what is going to give you energy, make you more motivated, smile and laugh more and on and on. You are in charge of what energy you want to surround yourself with, and you are in charge of doing the internal work. If you stay at your job and stay miserable, your body becomes numb to that feeling. If you have friends that are all about them, then you get drained because its a one sided relationship. If your family expects you to run to them all the time and you do; then you will feel drained once again. Its time to buckle down and organize your energy. Energy is time, and time is money. Everything gets affected and it spirals downward before you know it.
Gina Stango
says:Hi Sunhee, I really appreciate this post. I’d love to hear your input about working on preventing feelings of being overwhelmed, particularly now with being on lockdown and having my kids home all the time and trying to accomplish everyone’s activities and educational requirements. I feel like I do a generally good job of feeling and spreading positive energy, but then I feel overwhelmed with my autistic daughter’s meltdowns and my other girls’ fussiness. I try to work with them on their own mental health, but they are still kids! I often feel overwhelmed and lash out when they’re all fussy. They don’t deserve that and I need to learn better coping mechanisms!